How to feel like you are special and important to someone?

I think it differs at every stage.. Courtship, dating, married stage.. I think during courtship, every girl is a princess, being loved, cherished and happy without being accused of being unreasonable... No.. It's not that when you're in loved that you won't feel loved, cherished and happy.. But the expectation u have of your lover is higher & more.. And as time goes by, the other party will tend to disappoint you in a way or another... I wish that such thing will never occur..

Not that I'm perfect.. But ain't a couple suppose to be more willing to give especially when the other party is not in their best state?



Maybe my point of view about marriage is right, maybe not totally.. But the overall feeling towards marriage has more cons than pros So is marriage the start of a new life?, or an end? It seems that not wanting to settle down yet cuz I'm still not a believer that every couple should - date & get married...

I think the disappointments and whatnot, always always make me bit by bit more apprehensive towards - "marriage"..


I think my decision still remains.. At the very least, hopefully...... You'll prove me wrong...